Weekly Winners (Jan. 31 – Feb. 6)

February 7th, 2010 Denise No comments

A very random mix of photos for this week’s Weekly Winners… no rhyme or reason to this set at all. Well, other than the fact that they occurred this week. And that I took them. And that they are in this post. So maybe there is reason. But there is no rhyme.

Weekly Winners is a creation of the lovely Lotus (aka Sarcastic Mom) who I am supremely jealous of this week as she is at Blissdom ‘10 in Nashville. PBTH

Oranges = my favorite fruit.

Oranges = my favorite fruit.

Missing my husband...

Missing my husband...

I bought my parents a corkscrew. Because I got tired of not being able to open my bottle of wine. ;)

I bought my parents a corkscrew. Because I got tired of not being able to open my bottle of wine. ;)

Wagon wheel light fixture

Wagon wheel light fixture

Raindrops on my blue umbrella

Raindrops on my blue umbrella

Ive been enamored with this old abandoned grainery since high school. Thought it looked, well, beautiful in the sunset.

I've been enamored with this old abandoned grainery since high school. Thought it looked, well, beautiful in the sunset.

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Weekly Winners (Jan. 24 – 30)

January 30th, 2010 Denise 14 comments

This is the first time my Weekly Winners post comes all from the same day. However, it was a very special day. It was Stride & Ride.

My excitement for the day was trumped by this overwhelming hope and joy of the event. As we made the walk around Cowboys Stadium, I was amazed at how all of us there had gathered to celebrate MDA’s strides towards a cure for Muscular Dystrophy. We were all gathered together with one common purpose. There was old and young there. There were people of every race. There teams walked with their friend or family member who have Muscular Dystrophy. There were those walking in memory of a loved one.

The excitement that buzzed in the air trumped the fact we were at the new Cowboys Stadium — a sight in and of itself to experience. And at the end of the day, over $500,000 were raised for MDA (the group with the most raised was a high school team!) and there was this wonderful reminder to everyone there: You are not alone.

Amazing. I am SO GLAD I got to be there… Thank you Scott, Dana, Cody and Jeni for having me there. Go Maynard’s Gang!

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We were at Cowboys Stadium

We were at Cowboy's Stadium

Boy Scouts on hand to present the colors

Boy Scouts on hand to present the colors

We had people cheering us along the way around the stadium

We had people cheering us along the way around the stadium

Me and my big brother -- I didnt expect this to come out because we were literally walking at the same time I took this. Much to my surprise, this is one of the best pics of the day!

Me and my big brother -- I didn't expect this to come out because we were literally walking at the same time I took this. Much to my surprise, this is one of the best pics of the day!

Carrie and I have been taking pictures like this since junior high school. Only, I think this is the first time one of us had backup singers.

Carrie and I have been taking pictures like this since junior high school. Only, I think this is the first time one of us had backup singers.

Maynards Gang striding and riding. My niece and nephew brought friends along, and they took a turn pushing my nephew along.

Maynard's Gang striding and riding. My niece and nephew brought friends along, and they took a turn pushing my nephew along.

There are Tvs all over the stadium! Our teams cruising along, checking out the screens.

There are Tvs all over the stadium! Our teams cruising along, checking out the screens.

Our fearless leader!

Our fearless leader!

I can officially say Ive been on the Jumbotron at Cowboys Stadium. TAKE THAT! I RULE! COOLEST THING EVAH!

I can officially say I've been on the Jumbotron at Cowboys Stadium. TAKE THAT! I RULE! COOLEST THING EVAH!

I think these arches in the stadiums architechure are the best part of it.

I think these arches in the stadium's architechure are the best part of it.

Cowboys Stadium

Cowboys Stadium

We all went to this awesome barbecue restaurant after the walk. This was part of the buildings charm. SO NEAT!!

We all went to this awesome barbecue restaurant after the walk. This was part of the building's charm. SO NEAT!!

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When to give. Why to give.

January 27th, 2010 Denise No comments

cowboysstadiumRecently, a fund raising focus has been on helping the people in Haiti following the earthquake that devastated the island. The need there is great, and its wonderful to see the outpouring of love and aid that has come from the tragedy.

However, right here in our country, there are many people and organizations that are in need. And as everyone finds themselves tightening the belt on spending, those needs become greater. We find ourselves picking and choosing where we give our support.

For me, I have a few places I feel compelled most to help. At the top of that list is the Muscular Dystrophy Association (MDA).

See, my nephew has Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy (DMD), and I have seen the amazing things that MDA is doing with my own eyes through him.

My nephew is, without a single doubt in my mind, one of THE most amazing people anyone would be lucky enough to meet. Why? Simply because of his attitude and perspective on life. He never asks, “Why me?” Instead, he puts his energy and focus on those things he can do.

I still remember attending church one Sunday, and during the children’s sermon, the pastor asked Cody if there was ever a time he said, “That’s not fair!”

And his answer?

“When my sister got to have something I didn’t.”

I remember blinking back tears, and my heart filling with admiration. He could have said any number of things. When I couldn’t play baseball anymore. When I spent a week in ICU one summer. When I can’t join in at PE with the rest of the kids playing ball and chase. But no, when his sister got something he wanted.

He has an easy smile and can-do attitude. I have always said it, and I will continue to say it. I look up to that kid; he is my biggest hero. If I can be even half as optimistic as he is, then I’m doing okay.

It is with great honor that I will be joining him and the rest of the family in Dallas, Texas at the new Cowboys Stadium this weekend for MDA’s Stride & Ride to help raise money for MDA. We are Maynard’s Gang, named by Cody. And even though I don’t do mornings (no, really, I don’t; this isn’t just a funny thing to say), I will be there at 7:30 AM with a smile on my face (assuming I have coffee, then it might not be a smile as much as a smirk), ready to support this great cause. Ready to stand there by my nephew and family. Ready to be a part of this event.

(Besides. Dude. The new Cowboys Stadium. Holy Smokes! I can’t wait to see it! WOW! I think this week’s Weekly Winners has a definite theme ahead. LOL!)

I know from personal experience… dollars are very short these days. But if you can give, even just a little bit, please consider helping sponsor Maynard’s Gang.

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Tax season widower

January 26th, 2010 Denise No comments

I still remember my dad doing tax returns out of our living room when I was a kid. He had a full-time job during the day, but would do returns in the evenings between January and April 15th.

As the years passed, the living room office turned into a separate building, and the full-time job for both Mom and Dad became the family business. By the time I was in high school, I was used to having them able to attend countless events due to the flexibility of self-employment. However, in the same breath, I coined myself the term “Tax Season Orphan” as through tax season, I was used to their putting in long hours at work.

I would help out at the office regularly. Sometimes filing. Sometimes shredding papers. Sometimes data input. Sometimes just running errands. I could really truthfully say I’ve worked at the office since high school, its just been a bit sporadic.

I swore I wouldn’t do anything dealing with math, and my love for writing sent me to a Journalism degree. I worked at a newspaper for a year and a half, and, of course, I’ve married and moved to Nashville. Nonetheless, I have continued to help out using my degree for advertising, designing the web-site, etc.

Last year, I spent most of tax season in Texas working at the family business. My husband and I joked that it was my turn to be on the road for work, like he usually is doing his job. I would spend three weeks in Texas, one week in Nashville, and then do it all over again. All the way through tax season.

It worked out nicely! My parents didn’t have to hire and train a new employee, and I was happy to have the work. So, it was pretty much a no-brainer to do it again this year.

Today was my first day in the office for this tax season.

My husband and I drove down to Texas last week, as he has a show in Houston anyway. I was able to come see him at work for the show, and we got to spend a few extra days together going into the season.

He left back for Nashville yesterday, and I teased him that he was a Tax Season Widower.

It is what it is, and we’re good at the long-distance thing. For the next three months, I’m the Musician’s Widow married to the Tax Season Widower. We’re a pair, aren’t we? I think the time apart makes us appreciate our time together all the more… and that makes me grateful.

So here we go! Most of my time in Texas, with trips to Nashville in between. Let the “Tax Season Shuffle” begin!

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Weekly Winners (Jan. 17 – 23)

January 24th, 2010 Denise No comments

A very late Weekly Winners submission this week. It was a busy week, and an even busier Saturday & Sunday. But, better late than never!

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Bailey by the fire

Bailey by the fire

White chocolate covered Oreos with hot chocolate... YUM!

White chocolate covered Oreos with hot chocolate... YUM!

Steve Cropper & Steve Wariner -- Musical geniuses!

Steve Cropper & Steve Wariner -- Musical geniuses!

Shiner Frost

Shiner Frost

Is it just me... or do these hand dryers try to take all your skin off?

Is it just me... or do these hand dryers try to take all your skin off?

American flag flying in the sunlight

American flag flying in the sunlight

The wheels on the bus go round and round...

The wheels on the bus go 'round and 'round...

Dosey Doe -- The Woodlands, TX

Dosey Doe -- The Woodlands, TX

Joe Diffie @ Dosey Doe

Joe Diffie @ Dosey Doe

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Weekly Winners (Jan. 10 – 16)

January 17th, 2010 Denise 4 comments

Not much a photo-taking week this week, so very slim pickin’s. For more Weekly Winners peeps… go see Sarcastic Mom, our beautiful hostess.

Who says making a hamburger cant be a fun experience. Happy ketchup smiles!

Who says making a hamburger can't be a fun experience. Happy ketchup smiles!

Sometimes, you just need a beer. Shocktop: My favorite. I think.

Sometimes, you just need a beer. Shocktop: My favorite. I think.

Monkey See, Monkey Do... Tequila copying Baileys pose and wishing to play.

Monkey See, Monkey Do... Tequila copying Bailey's pose and wishing to play.

I hope you get some tonight... I hope you get some cake and ice cream... I hope you get some tonight! Happy Birthday to Rick & Joyce!

I hope you get some tonight... I hope you get some cake and ice cream... I hope you get some tonight! Happy Birthday to Rick & Joyce!

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Weekly Winners (Jan. 3 – 9)

January 10th, 2010 Denise 21 comments

A snow-filled Weekly Winners! We took a trip to the Smoky Mountains for our Anniversary (3 years!), and then it snowed when we got back home to Nashville! A snowy week for us!!

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Against the blue sky

Against the blue sky

Snow covered trees

Snow covered trees

Standing tall

Standing tall

Valley

Valley

See Rock City

Gorge

I love you

I love you

Tracks

Tracks

Snowy step

Snowy step

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Fine print and research

January 8th, 2010 Denise No comments

Read the fine print. We’ve all heard that advice time and time again, but I’m willing to bet we are ALL guilty of not doing it now and then. Most of the time, I read the fine print when something seems too good to be true, and I want to prove to myself I am right. It’s the times I want to believe “too good to be true” IS true that I don’t read it. That, or when I think I already know the fine print.

Within the last few weeks I’ve run into cases where I failed to read the fine print. The first case came out fine, and I think I ultimately ended up making a better decision for my situation than I would have otherwise. The second case… Well…

My husband and I celebrated our third wedding anniversary this week. We celebrated it in the Smoky Mountains area of Tennessee. We’ve made many trips to the Gatlinburg area, and I think its safe to say that its our favorite vacation location.

This past summer, we got signed up for a three day/two night trip to Pigeon Forge through this time share resort company. Go on our trip, sit through their presentation, and receive gift cards to Bass Pro Shops whether we sign up for the timeshare or not. It was that easy.

Too good to be true, right? We should have thought so, but somehow it all made sense. And somehow we missed the “minimum income required” in the fine print.

Fast forward about six months to this week. Excited for our trip, we’d not been out that direction in over a year, and after a stressful few months we figured a pre-paid vacation would be the thing to clear our minds. We arrived at the check-in location, and it was at that time we were given a “questionnaire” and the one that stumped us was “yearly income.”

See, in both of our careers, nailing down a yearly income is a struggle. We both have income from multiple sources through the year, and usually we don’t know how we came out until we file our tax return. It usually ends up being the surprise that we are never really happy with. So, we opted to go fairly middle of the road in our answer. Enough to live comfortably, but low enough to show we’re not exactly able to have that many “fun times and toys.”

Page two comes. First requirement, a minimum income. One check box above the one we’d checked. We looked at each other with alarm, but I ultimately shrugged it off. Its not like we were drastically below that minimum (Literally could have been less than $100 less given the span of income choices) and we WERE starting a whole new year. Surely this wouldn’t be an issue. The final requirement would be that we both attend the presentation, lest our deal be voided and we’d be charged full price for our room instead of the discounted rate. (After all of the events of our trip, I read the fine print and discovered all of this in there. So they did cover their butt there. Its in the fine print, why should they tell you this from the get-go? Right?)

Our room was very nice. It reminded me of a small apartment, and with a full (small) kitchen we were able to avoid eating out that night. I had brought food along to cook, and we spent the whole evening inside from the cold.

The next morning — our actual anniversary — we headed over to the presentation. We checked in, and before long were called to the front desk. “You don’t make the minimum requirement, you can’t take the presentation. We can’t change the original answer you gave. Call this number for more details.”

We wouldn’t be ALLOWED to sit through the presentation? What did this mean for the room rate?

We found out fast it voided everything. No gift cards and the room price went immediately back to full price. AND we were minutes after check-out time. In other words, “You don’t make enough money so we are going to screw you over and charge you more money.” Kind of like credit cards these days.  Can’t pay your bill? OK! We’ll just charge you  MORE MONEY because that just makes the most logical sense. Right?

Married 3 Years!

Married 3 Years!

I’ll never be a millionaire because I have too much logic going on in my brain. I can’t think of these ways to make people who can’t afford things to pay more for those same things that I’ll give to a rich man for free. But I digress…

Luckily, at the actual resort, the front desk woman was incredibly sweet and checked us out immediately and assured us we wouldn’t be charged for a second night after all. If more people were as kind as this woman, the world would be a far kinder and happier place.

I’ve carefully left out the name of this resort company all along, and I’ll continue to do so from here on out. However, I will add a link to “Pissed Consumers” page regarding the company… Reading this page made me realize that they probably did us a huge favor in the end. It is also in reading this page that I wish I’d done my homework sooner and known better what kind of company we were dealing with.

My husband and I refused to let it ruin our Anniversary, and in the end we made our way home a day early. Snow and ice that fell over night made us very grateful we HAD decided to come on home, and everything came out all right. We had a wonderful and memorable day. Made it home safely. And didn’t have to sit though some stuffy 90 – 120 minute presentation on our special day.

Oh and the lesson to read the fine print was nailed down even harder.

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Weekly Winners (Dec. 27 – Jan. 2)

January 3rd, 2010 Denise 3 comments

Happy New Year!

I was traveling all day yesterday and last night from Central Texas to Nashville, TN. Therefore my Weekly Winners post is a little late today. But never fear, they are here!! For many more Weekly Winners participants, go visit Sarcastic Mom!

In an attempt to save money in 2010, we went to refinance on our truck. In the end, we ended up in a new 2010 F-150 because it ultimately will save us A LOT in lower insurance costs and better gas mileage. Not to mention, we now have a warranty again in case of repairs needed. New truck. Save money. Crazy, huh?

In an attempt to save money in 2010, we went to refinance on our truck. In the end, we ended up in a new 2010 F-150 because it ultimately will save us A LOT in lower insurance costs and better gas mileage. Not to mention, we now have a warranty again in case of repairs needed. New truck. Save money. Crazy, huh?

Dangles from my mirror -- These dangle have accumulated through my various trucks. The star I purchased at the Kolache Festival in Caldwell in either 2003 or 2004. The black beads my husband gave me just before our first kiss. The rest just made their way there over time for one reason or another. And, yes, they are in the new truck now.

Dangles from my mirror -- These dangle have accumulated through my various trucks. The star I purchased at the Kolache Festival in Caldwell in either 2003 or 2004. The black beads my husband gave me just before our first kiss. The rest just made their way there over time for one reason or another. And, yes, they are in the new truck now.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

Camera + Mirror = FUN!

Camera + Mirror = FUN!

My niece and nephew dancing the New Year in... Happy 2010!

My niece and nephew dancing the New Year in... Happy 2010!

An Anniversary approaches...

An Anniversary approaches...

Like life... the road turns and takes you on the path it wants you to take

Like life... the road turns and takes you on the path it wants you to take

Flag flying in the wind... please disregard the reflection of my camera in the sky. I should have left this out for that reason, but Im proud of having caught this image going 70 down I-35

Flag flying in the wind... please disregard the reflection of my camera in the sky. I should have left this out for that reason, but I'm proud of having caught this image going 70 down I-35

One last look back before darkness falls on our trip home.

One last look back before darkness falls on our trip home.

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Letter to the future

December 31st, 2009 Denise 2 comments

Dear 2010,

Be nice.

No, seriously. Be nice. Your predecessor, 2009? Talk about your evil woman! I say good riddance to her. Don’t let the champagne cork hit you when you go.

I should be fair and admit 2009 had its good aspects. One of which was my laying the groundwork for the future professionally. And within that, I know in my heart that you, 2010, will be successful.

It has to be, and thus will be.

I don’t make New Years resolutions. I choose to make resolutions throughout the year, and personally I feel like making a New Years resolution is setting yourself up to fail at those goals. Because its hard to take goal seriously when its made because you feel like you should make it, versus making the goal at a time you are prepared mentally to truly succeed in that particular goal.

I do, however, choose to look to the new year with an unspecific and broad feeling of hope and determination.I’m going into the new year with a positive outlook on it. Stress and worry and pessimism be gone! Determination and activism and optimism enter!

So, you see, 2010… you really have no choice but to be nice. I will accept nothing less of you. I allowed 2009 to dictate me too much. And, as a result, 2010, I am taking over as boss. And you WILL be better, and you WILL be successful.

I will welcome you with open arms at the stroke of midnight with my husband and family and friends. And I will be very glad to see you. Welcome to 2010…

- Me

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